Here are 8 indicators of adult ADHD that are commonly observed
I was initially diagnosed with ADHD when I was 11 years old. Twenty years later, that diagnosis was reaffirmed, and suddenly, everything in my life started to make sense, including the feeling of being somehow different from everyone else. When I was first diagnosed as a child, there wasn’t as much awareness about ADHD as there is today.
I don’t remember receiving much information about how ADHD would affect my life outside of school; the focus was mainly on managing the “problem” (my ADHD) to benefit teachers and others who dealt with me daily. Over the years, I didn’t think much about my diagnosis, perhaps because, like many things, I didn’t fully pay attention or connect the pieces until it began significantly impacting my life. It wasn’t until I was re-evaluated in 2021, at the age of 31, that I realized many of the quirks I thought were just part of me were manifestations of ADHD. If it weren’t for my mental health struggles at the time, I probably wouldn’t have sought a re-diagnosis.
Being re-diagnosed as an adult was beneficial because it gave me something to research and a framework to identify the adult traits that were likely stealthy indicators of still having an ADHD brain.
Here are 8 signs of adult ADHD:
- Difficulty with Focus: As a child, my lack of focus was evident in various settings, from figure skating practice to the classroom. Teachers often complained to my mom that I seemed distracted, doodling or gazing out the window as if I wasn’t present. Despite this, I excelled in subjects like writing, where my skills were in the top percentiles, though math remained a struggle then and now.
- Masking Lack of Focus: As I grew older, I learned to conceal my inattentiveness better. However, I still struggled to maintain focus, often finding myself zoning out and then scrambling to piece together conversations or lecture content. This habit continued into college, where I’d discretely scroll through social media to stay engaged, though it probably appeared disrespectful to my professors.
- Obsessive Behaviors: During the pandemic, my mental health suffered, leading me to hyperfocus on potential symptoms of OCD, which caused significant anxiety. Eventually, I was evaluated and diagnosed with ADHD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depressive Disorder. This experience highlighted my tendency to obsess over things, such as collecting items or fixating on perceived problems.
- Emotional Dysregulation: I often overreact to situations or conversely under-react, particularly in social contexts. This emotional volatility, including rejection-sensitive dysphoria, is a common symptom of ADHD that has impacted my relationships and self-perception.
- Information Processing: I have a habit of speed-reading and tab-hopping, which often leaves tasks incomplete and contributes to my struggle with maintaining focus.
- Productivity Patterns: My productivity oscillates between hyperfocus and periods of inertia, where I struggle to complete tasks. This inconsistency has been a lifelong challenge, influencing my academic and professional experiences.
- Impulse Control and Eating Habits: Binge eating has been a recurring issue in my life, linked to ADHD’s impulse control challenges. This behavior has fluctuated over time but remains a persistent concern.
- Work Environment Challenges: Traditional office settings are challenging for me due to my difficulty with multitasking and working under pressure. This was evident in previous job experiences, where I struggled to maintain focus and meet expectations.
Understanding these signs has helped me navigate life with ADHD more effectively, though it remains a continual learning process.